@Sebastiaan the list never dictates what i do.. its a guide .. So when i went to New York .. I literally had hundreds of options but say I was in one area and i know there is apub i fancy , and i am near it .. i'll go there.. have a look and make my mind up.. but i will try and build experiences.. I went and had a proper 1920's style shave once .. the guy had the waxed moustache and everything place no longer exists as it does but i went because it sounded fun..